Unsolicited advice from an older man to younger men ... and women, who have an equal stake in this game. Pursue: Honesty, Listening, Temperament and Personal Responsibility
Great advice -- especially the bit about keeping your temper. The older I get, the more I realize arguments tend to be won by people who say the least, and don't approach it as an argument at all; instead, a genuine attempt to understand the other person's point of view.
I'm fortunate that I'm very even-tempered. And I've learned ways to approach people who are riled up. Makes for a much more peaceful existence. And I would not trade my peace of mind for any amount of wealth.
Awesome wisdom Jim. I do practice quite a few of your suggestions. Especially about anger, backing up my husband and trying to be as honest as possible. What a great piece. You write beautifully.
Great advice -- especially the bit about keeping your temper. The older I get, the more I realize arguments tend to be won by people who say the least, and don't approach it as an argument at all; instead, a genuine attempt to understand the other person's point of view.
I'm fortunate that I'm very even-tempered. And I've learned ways to approach people who are riled up. Makes for a much more peaceful existence. And I would not trade my peace of mind for any amount of wealth.
The only person I can be is myself....Everyone else is taken!
Oscar Wilde!
Awesome wisdom Jim. I do practice quite a few of your suggestions. Especially about anger, backing up my husband and trying to be as honest as possible. What a great piece. You write beautifully.